Wedding with Kids

So Im off to a beautiful wedding today to help capture a bride and groom on this special occasion. And I get to thinking about all the weddings I have been to and the children that have been involved. Only a few have kept that in mind when it comes to the planning of the reception. Everyone knows that kids get tired, have unexpected meltdowns, run around and like to cut loose like the adults. Some tips to help contain our lil sunshine makers would be: 1: Have your reception location provide a kid friendly table. Place 2 colored pails in the middle, one with coloring books the other with crayons. Spread a few inexpensive prizes all over the table and let them have kid time. 2: Hire 2 baby sitters to attend your reception. Though you may not have kids, it is a great way to keep other guests children occupied. Arm them with activities, treats and bubbles. Contact friends with children ahead of time and let them know, their children are welcome to come and what you have planned. 3: If you do not want the extra expense of sitters or activities due to a strict budget. Contact your DJ. Let them know it is a child friendly reception and to suggest a kids mini jam. This is a great time for the lil ones to get all the wiggles out. The DJ can call all children to the dance floor, do such dances like the Hokey Pokey, Chicken Dance and any other great children songs. This allows them to dance, feel like a part of your day and shows the parents that their children are as special to you as they are. 4: when all else fails, though it may be a dreaded conversation with the parents in fear of offending them. Allow children for the pre-reception hours. Those that involve the dinner, blessing and cake. Enjoy Wedding season and remember, plan your reception for all guests big and small to help for a nice smooth event.